Wednesday, December 22, 2010

Another Mother's Son

I have a young friend--I haven't known him for very long, but sometimes I feel like I have known him forever, which is kind of funny because he is only two years old. We like to talk about many things and we laugh alot. Our difference in age doesn't seem to matter much to him. He has the biggest blue eyes--clear and bright and trusting. His words and actions reveal to me that his parents cherish him and have taken care to train him for the Lord, just as they are training his siblings. Gentle and soft-spoken, he loves to talk about his farm, his animals and his siblings. He is so very dear to me and sometimes I have to remind myself that he is another mother's son. But his mother has other responsibilities during this hour at our homeschool co-op and she has entrusted him to me for this time. I care for her baby as she teaches my children, speaking wisdom and knowledge into their lives one day a week. Sometimes he cries a little when his mommie leaves so I just hug this little treasure and keep him feeling safe and loved until she returns.

Friday, December 17, 2010

...the least of these...

oh, my, the people...the people Jesus would call "the least of these." So many people, lined up and patiently waiting for the meal we would serve them. Quiet, hungry, needy...and respectful during the prayer. Hats taken off, heads were bowed, even a few "amens" were voiced.

As a group, they looked raggy, dirty, and cold... in a word, homeless. But as they started filing through the line, and came toward me, they became individuals...

My job was to hand out the chapstick. Chapstick is a much appreciated luxury. For those who spend long hours outside, chapstick protects lips from the elements. But I also learned it soothes chapped hands and relieves the pain of scrapes and cuts.

As I offered the chapstick, the "group" became "individuals": the middle aged man with the grizzled beard, the Hispanic man who couldn't speak English but gratefully accepted the chapstick, the man in the wheelchair, the college aged guy who had been on the street for awhile now, the middle-aged woman with the little boys, the old man in the overalls, the young woman with the "interesting" eye makeup, the tanned and wrinkled man with the pale blue eyes, and many, many more.

Some of the interactions lasted more than a few seconds when the serving line got a little congested or when someone was inclined to talk. I remember the obviously homeless man who told me he hadn't eaten in two days and wondered if it would be ok for him to have seconds and another homeless man who shared with me the wonders of chapstick. There was a young mother who was indignant at the behavior of a couple who nibbled at their food and exited the building, leaving their mostly full plates of food on the table. One man, probably in his thirties, noticed my scout uniform and mentioned he had been a boy scout when he was a teenager. I wanted to hug the cute little preschool girl whose eyes sparkled as I gave her a tube of chapstick.

Later in the evening, I still had some chapstick left, so I was wandering around, asking people if they wanted some more. Without fail, they told me I had already given them some. But when I said I had extras to give away, most were grateful to take another tube.

There were only a few children and they mostly seemed to be very subdued, even during the gift distribution. Except for one little girl, who was inclined to be chatty and very thrilled as she showed me her toy and the books she had been given.

I had a seriously scary moment when I noticed that the man in the wheelchair had dropped his hat on the floor and I went to pick it up and hand it back to him. He couldn't seem to take it from me and then his head dropped to his chest and I kinda freaked out and ran a few steps back to our scoutmaster to get some help. Within seconds, the church leader joined the group and bent over him. The guy lifted his head, and kinda just looked at us. I heard later that he told someone he had had a seizure.

The church had some clothes and shoes for the adults as well as some Christmas toys for the children. There weren't enough shoes and clothes for all, as the leader told the crowd, but they would give as the Lord provided. He told me later that the people get anxious in situations like this because they know there isn't enough for all but they need some of this stuff so desperately. They obeyed the rules, they stood patiently in line, they didn't complain. I was impressed, having witnessed some embarrassingly rude behavior earlier this week at Walmart.

There were some people who came up and thanked us for serving them and to them I answered earnestly and sincerely, "It was my privilege."

"Lord, when did we see You hungry, and feed You, or thirsty, and give You something to drink?" The King will answer and say, "Assuredly, I say to you, inasmuch as you did it to one of the least of these My brethren, you did it to Me." Matthew 25:37,40

Indeed, it was my privilege to serve Him by serving the least of His brethren.

Thursday, December 16, 2010

Love and a Tube of Chapstick

Yesterday I fed the hungry. Well, I guess I feed the hungry on a daily basis at my house, so let me try again.


Yesterday evening I helped feed people who were really hungry. Several mentioned that this was the first food they'd had all day and another said he hadn't eaten in two days.


Some of these people came in right off the street while others probably came in their cars (and would be going back to sleep in them, too.) Some of them lived in the neighborhood or a nearby neighborhood. Some likely lived in shelters. Some may have needed a meal more than some of the others. But each one who came for a meal was an eternal soul.


Yesterday I was privileged to "feed Jesus" by helping to feed "the least of these." I went into the experience with a little trepidation as well as the conviction that I needed to love these people. My job was passing out chapstick, which is a real luxury to those who spend their days outside and on the street. My intent was to include a little love with each tube. I tried to make eye contact, smile, or maybe squeeze an arm or pat a hand. Some times I got a grateful smile or a verbal thank you. And sometimes I didn't. Either way it was okay.


I gazed into old eyes, sad eyes, bitter eyes, grateful eyes, apathetic eyes, weary eyes and even some very young eyes...and behind each pair of eyes was an eternal soul.


Yesterday we sought to meet the very real, pressing need for food and to plant a tiny seed of God's love. And to give them some chapstick.


Wednesday, December 15, 2010

It's Fun to Say "Oratorio"

So it wasn't the Messiah-it wasn't even Handel-it was an oratorio by Johann Sebastian Bach which he called Weihnachtsoratorium which is practically impossible to pronouce gracefully so nowadays we cheat a litle and call it Bach's Christmas Oratorio which is kinda fun to say and sounds prettier, too. It was just a teeny tiny mix-up, a little bitty misunderstanding but I was still excited about it until I noticed from the program that all of the songs were in German (which served to considerably dampen my enthusiasm...that is, until the performance began)

The overture was majestic and glorious and so extremely "Bach," if I can use a proper noun as an adjective. (and I can because this is my blog and it seems like I break the rules of grammar on a regular basis anyway, so I say let's go with it.)

Then the choir began singing things like "Glory to God in the highest" which I never would have known without the subtitles because German is pretty much nothing like English.

Thanks to modern technology (and my "distance" glasses) I was blessed by the words of Scripture and the inspiring lyrics, some of which I jotted down (kind of a trick to do in the dark.) I will share with you my favorite phrases:

"Break through, oh lovely light of morn."
"Now will the Star of Jacob shine its radiance..."
"How shall I fitly meet Thee and give Thee welcome due?"
"For us to Earth He cometh poor "
"Within yon gloomy Manger lies..."
"Ruler of Heaven, hear our stammering tones"
"Hear our heart's triumphant praise because our welfare is assured"
"I will live for Thee here"
"With Thee I will soar at last, filled with joy without end!!"

Tuesday, December 14, 2010

Saved By the Subtitles

I know you are probably thinking, "Oh, no, another post about opera" and you might be right... sorta... at least, the "oh, no" part... not the opera part... because this post is about the oratorio. Try not to get too excited...

Like an opera, an oratorio has an orchestra, soloists and a choir...and also music that you have to exert a little effort to get into. However, unlike opera, an oratorio usually has a religious theme. History lesson: in Italy during the early 17th century, Lent was strictly observed as a period of prayer and fasting, in preparation for Holy week. The Church forbade secular musical performances during the 40 days prior to the celebration of the Resurrection, apparently to satisfy itself that people were at least giving up something for Lent. Into this musical abyss, the oratorio was born.

When the word oratorio comes up in casual conversation, (which may not be all that often but work with me here) the first thing that comes to mind is probably Handel's Messiah. I always knew I liked Handel, most certainly because of his Messiah. But now I find I like him even more since I have discovered that, although he was German, he wrote the first oratorio in the English language and his subject was Esther (being a fan of both English and Esther.) I am getting ahead of myself here... In the early 1700's, he had been writing operas, which were not getting a lot of favorable attention. I guess it came to him one day that if he wrote an oratorio, he would be pretty much guaranteed an audience during Lent, which led to his first religious oratorio (Israel in Egypt) (a sell-out) and ultimately, to the Messiah.

Besides all the usual instruments--all the violins, flutes, oboes and the obligatory cello--oratorios are usually pretty big on trumpets and timpani. There are some monumental musical moments going on and the trumpet and timpani seem to be mandatory for those moments. That, of course, is my personal opinion but I think you would have to agree that nothing grabs your attention quicker than a trumpet and nothing accentuates a point better than a timpani!

Although there are soloists and ensembles, the backbone of the oratorio is the choir. Glorious music just sounds more glorious coming from a big choir. And with a religious theme, there is a lot of glorious going on.

The word "oratorio" means "hall for prayer" which I think refers to the fact that oratorios were originally performed in churches rather than opera houses or concert halls. However, the whole oratorio is almost like a prayer; at least that has been my experience. (which at this point is limited to Bach's Christmas Oratorio and Handel's Messiah) Bach's Christmas Oratorio was written in 1734 in German, but happily for me, the performance I attended provided subtitles. Those subtitles not only saved the day for me but enriched, inspired, and fed my soul. And, probably, that is exactly what the church fathers wanted and what the oratorio composers intended.

Sunday, December 5, 2010

My Sublime Opera Moments

This post is probably just for me: my "sublime moments" and the YouTube links to each one. Definitely not an exhaustive list; although if you listen to very many, you will definitely be exhausted.

"Der Hölle Rache" from Die Zauberflote by Mozart
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_ufeyarJxNQ

"O Mio Babbino Caro" from Gianni Schicchi by Puccini
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ZRuYQ9KRJms&feature=fvw

"Quando Me'n Vo"from La Boheme by Puccini
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uZzC6e6olCY&feature=related

"The Marriage of Figaro Overture" by Mozart
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=io1TLkvQEHQ

"The Flower Duet" from Lakeme by Delibes
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8Qx2lMaMsl8

"Je Veux Vivre" from Romeo et Juliette by Gounod
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HsHKWGHkH0M&feature=related

"Caro Nome" from Rigoletto by Verdi
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0S98ptHUFBY&feature=related

"Brindisi" from La Traviata by Verdi
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WiChbD7r-VA&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtTKcqINJrM&feature=related
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=HtTKcqINJrM&feature=related

Just a Few More Notes ♪♫ About Opera

Dafne, one of the first operas in history--that we know about--was the musical re-telling of the story of a nymph named Daphne who, upon being chased by Apollo, was turned into a laurel tree. It seems that a lot of the earliest operas were inspired by Greek and Roman myths. This opera was written by Jacopo Peri and Ottavio Rinuccini in 1597, in, where else, Italy. (the "i"s at the end of their names should have been a dead giveaway) The librettist Rinuccini was convinced that his opera "gave pleasure beyond belief to the few who heard it." I guess we will just have to take his word for it.

Bel canto opera means beautiful singing and generally, they are not kidding. Many operatic songs were written for the express purpose of showing off a particular singer's voice.

Opera seria is a noble and serious style of opera written for, and usually about, nobility.

Opera buffa is opera that is light and comic, usually with a happy ending, written for the common folk.

In an opera, it is usually the soprano who sings an aria to express her innermost feelings and share them with the entire world. Then she insists on repeating it several times in case you missed it the first time. And then she sings it one more time for good measure.

A recitative is sung to keep the plot moving along and to explain things. However, the whole purpose of the recitative is defeated if the opera is sung in Italian, unless of course there are subtitles or you happen to speak Italian.

Most operas are in Italian although there are some in German and French. It is probably good that many operas are sung in another language because words tend to be distracting. There are those of the opinion (mainly me) that music is the language of opera and who listens to the words, anyway.


Before going to an opera it is best to do some serious preparation so here are some hints in case you decide to venture into the world of opera:

1-Fortify yourself with a good meal because it might be some time before you get to eat again. (especially if you go to a Wagnerian opera which I haven't even mentioned and probably won't because that is a bit beyond me) Have a cup or two of coffee...just not too much.

2-You ought to at least read the libretto, study the life of the composer and listen to all the music of the opera you are going to as well as some of his other compositions. (I wonder why all the opera composers seem to be men...I may have to look into that) In this case, familiarity does not breed contempt. In fact, after you have heard the opera several times, it becomes more like a dear old friend.

3-Arm yourself with some good old fashioned opera glasses or a discreet pair of binoculars because you want to be able to see the expressions on the faces of the singers. And the details of their costumes. But try to ignore the microphones. They kinda spoil the effect.

4-Do not take candy with noisy wrappers and please, pre-open your Ludens cherry cough drops if you suspect you might be overtaken by a fit of coughing. There are some serious opera lovers out there and I will not be responsible if one takes offense at your wrapper-rustling.

5- Try not to get bogged down by the repetitiveness of the words or the implausibility of the storyline. Enjoy the moments you find sublime and let your spirit fly away with the music.

6-A final thought: music expresses emotion and opera is all about emotion. Just expect that and don't get all emotional about it. Or take plenty of tissues.

From "Opera, Schmopera" to "I ♥ Opera"

Opera is, well, opera. At first, opera and I did not get along. So I spent some time with the genre, reasoning that if I became more familiar with it, I would like it more. I went to a few operas:

Die Zauberflote
Cosi Fan Tutte
La Perichole
The Marriage of Figaro
Amahl and the Night Visitors
Suor Angelica




And then I had an epiphany: it is all about the music, baby. Ever since I figured that out, opera and I have gotten along just fine.

Opera is not about the story or the characters. It is the music. And some of it is sublime. And some of it is not.

(I suspect that opera composers keep the sublime moments to a minimum--because, just as in real life, there are lots of sub-sublime moments in an opera.) (I just made up that word--you cannot find it in the dictionary--go ahead, try)

Some of my sublime moments:

"Der Hölle Rache" from Die Zauberflote by Mozart
"O Mio Babbino Caro" from Gianni Schicchi by Puccini
"Je Veux Vivre" from Romeo et Juliette by Gounod
"The Flower Duet" from Lakeme by Delibes
"Quando Me'n Vo"from La Boheme by Puccini
"Brindisi" from La Traviata by Verdi
"The Marriage of Figaro Overture" by Mozart
"Caro Nome" from Rigoletto by Verdi

Opera is not much like real life.

Except for when money gets tight at the end of the month and someone can't pay his rent or when someone makes bad choices and has to face the consequences. No, opera isn't much like real life except for when someone is misunderstood or falls in love with the wrong person or goes lurking through a temple with a magic flute and a bird-man, looking for his true love (ok, maybe not so much the last one.)

I guess except for the complicated story lines and the fact that everybody sings all the time, opera might not be so far from real life sometimes. At least, real life if you're Italian.

Friday, December 3, 2010

Because of Wendy


If I hug my kids a little oftener, squeeze them a little tighter, hold them a little longer, that is because of Wendy. It is Wendy's legacy of love that challenges me.

If I do my home school lesson planning more than a month in advance, that is because of Wendy. It is Wendy's legacy of diligence that challenges me.

If I have a talent or a resource and I step out of my comfort zone to volunteer, it is because of Wendy. It is Wendy's legacy of availability that challenges me.

If I sense the calling of God and I follow that leading, it is because of Wendy. It is Wendy's legacy of obedience that challenges me.

If I thank God for all the gifts that He has given me, it is because of Wendy. It is Wendy's legacy of gratitude that challenges me.

And I thank God that I had the privilege to know and be challenged by Wendy.

Tuesday, November 30, 2010

An Adventure in Ardmore

alternately titled: How We Meet an Angel and Learn That Worms Can Do Calculus (Much to My Chagrin Because I am Having a Whole Lot of Trouble Just Helping Michael with Geometry)



On the road before it gets light--breakfast in Norman--sunrise somewhere near Purcell--late fall scenery west of Ada--Christmas music on the radio--the Oklahoma hills otherwise known as the Arbuckle Mountains--a blow-out south of Ardmore near Lake Murray--

Good times! ...until the blow-out thing...

And this is exactly how it went down:

Grace is driving along and I'm trying to figure out how much longer it will take us to reach our destination which is Southeastern University in Durant, Oklahoma. I hear a noise from the back of the van and ask Grace if she heard it. She did.

"Should I slow down?"
"No," I say, "Speed up."

She doesn't, being a prudent and careful driver. The sound is suddenly louder and we decide to pull over to the side of the highway.

Sure enough, there is a problem; the tire is totally--down to the rim--FLAT. I begin to cry hysterically and wring my hands while Grace starts to look for the jack. No, that's not quite true. I rack my brain, trying to remember just who we know in the area that we could call for help while Grace finds the jack and pulls it out. After a quick phone consultation with my husband, we figure out how to get the tire out. We are trying to decide just exactly where to place the jack when an angel in a pickup truck pulls over and greets us with the words: "Need some help?"

We admit we do.

"Ok," he responds. "I would want somebody to help my wife and kids if something like this happened to them. I don't have to be anywhere in a hurry."

The "angel" was a mechanical engineer from Memphis, Tennessee who was working on a steel mill in Madill. He was originally from Wynnewood, Oklahoma and his parents still live in Oklahoma in the city of Tulsa.



After a few false starts with our jack--he thought it looked warped and I told him we generally used it to change tires on semi trucks--soon the old tire was off and the spare was on. Except for the fact that it had a gaping hole, the old tire actually looked a whole lot better than the spare tire, which was dry and crackly and amazingly small.


He threw the flat tire in the back of the van while we loaded up the jack. Then we turned around and he was gone. Well, to be honest, he didn't actually disappear or anything; he just hopped into his pickup and drove off. But I'm still of the opinion that he was an angel...



P.S. If you want to know about worms and calculus, here's the deal: worms can do calculus. I'm sorry but you are just going to have to take my word on this. Dr. Elliott, a math professor at Southeastern University said that worms can do calculus and who am I to question somebody who has a PHD.

Sunday, November 28, 2010

"He Looked Beyond My Fault and Saw My Need"


My favorite Irish song is "Danny Boy" and several people have written Christian lyrics for that melody. My daughter wanted to sing it at church but the version with lyrics by Dottie Rambo had only one verse. I thought, "Well, I can just write a couple more verses! How hard can that be?"

It took a bit of time and effort (ok, maybe more than a bit!) but I now can add "lyricist" to my resume!







"He Looked Beyond My Fault and Saw My Need"
sung to the tune of "Danny Boy" ("Londonderry Air")


original lyrics--Dottie Rambo
additional lyrics-- Karen Nilson (vs. 2 and 3)


1.Amazing grace, shall always be my song of praise.
For it was grace that brought me liberty,
I do not know, just why He came to love me so.
He looked beyond my fault and saw my need.

(chorus)
I shall forever lift mine eyes to Calvary,
To view the cross, where Jesus died for me
How marvelous, His grace that caught my falling soul
He looked beyond my fault and saw my need.

2.By waters still or valleys dark with suffering
I'll follow Him, where e'er His way may lead,
Yet though He slay me, I will ever trust in Him
He sees beyond today and knows my need.

(chorus)
I shall forever lift mine eyes to Calvary,
To view the cross, where Jesus died for me
How marvelous, His grace that caught my falling soul
He looked beyond my fault and saw my need.

(melody of the chorus)
3.Amazing grace and mercy beyond measure
His will to save a wretched one like me
My soul shall ever, ever praise His holy name
He looked beyond my sin and saved my soul.





Monday, November 22, 2010

One Christmas by Daniel

Today's topic: Christmas
by Daniel Nilson (alias Sanders)

One Christmas night it was dark....and snowy and there was a place colder and darker than ever because it was a place that didn't care about the story of Christmas. They just cared about gifts to them...But there was a place that was warm and beautiful because they all believed in Christ.























Saturday, November 20, 2010

A Confession or Two (with apologies to all John Denver fans out there)

So can I tell you something? I think I can trust you. I feel like we have a close enough relationship so that you won't laugh out loud or throw things at me.

This is my confession: I used to write poetry. Lots of it. In junior and senior high school. It was pretty sappy. Many of those poems were about mountains, eagles, lakes and pine trees. (yep. sappy.) Sounds to me like someone was slightly inspired by John Denver...yeah...I know...don't judge me...


I have another confession: I still like to listen to John Denver now and then. Ditto on the above...by the way, this is the part where you don't throw things at me.


This is what I remember of one poem I wrote:

Bear Lake

From the lake's dark depths
Boulders arise
Like monsters with
Malevolent eyes.



Then it goes on to describe the "brown and woody toes" of the pine trees and the beauty of the "snow-sprinkled land." I wrote it after the first time I saw the Rocky Mountains (and after the millionth time I heard 'Rocky Mountain High'...which actually happened at about the same time...really and truly. 'Rocky Mountain High' came on the radio when we were driving up into the mountains)


Yes, I was crazy about the mountains...which might explain the John Denver thing.

If I should ever find my journals from this time in my life, I will post a few more examples of my poetry to brighten your day...or not...




(note: these pictures were taken by Rachel on a Character First ski trip in March of 2008 when Mary-Grace skiied into a wall and fractured her wrist in two places and Rachel was going up the ski lift and saw her sister lying there in the snow beside the wall with the medics working on her and...well, maybe someday I ought to write about that...just not now.)



Saturday, November 13, 2010

Move Over, Alex Trebek

Three of us sat together there in the dining room of the nursing home--my daughter, myself and Sybil. Sybil is a dear; she's pleasant and agreeable and interested in everything. She's so interested, in fact, that she often asks you the same question two or three times. Or maybe it's because she doesn't remember what you told her the first time she asked. She has a little sign on her walker reminding her how to get back to her room: "Turn left after the dining room, then third door on the right". We talk about the weather-several times-and this afternoon's activity-Jeopardy!

Two ladies join our little group and we introduce ourselves. The lady with the cropped white hair and the snappy green eyes informs us that her name is Moyne "M-O-Y-N-E. I'm Irish and I took that name so you wouldn't have to." Jonni, very spry, funny and so sweet, says she is Irish, too, and I admit to being a little Irish myself. We reassure Moyne that she has a lovely name. Jonni tells us that her family used to call her "Baby" and how, even when she got older, like forty, people were still calling her that.

Mary, Eloise and Bea arrive. Bea wants to know if we will be doing a Christmas program again this year. I tell her that my older girls are very busy with their college classes and that my talent pool is dwindling. She still thinks we ought to do a program. I tell her she doesn't want to hear me sing a solo or play an instrument but I am quick to assure her that we plan to be there at Christmastime, talent or no talent. Then, in my best imitation of Alex Trebek, I tell them it is time for Jeopardy!

Sybil may have short-term memory loss but she shows us she knows her trivia on the very first question. It had to have been only 30 seconds later, during Jonni's turn, when she asks "Now, what are we doing here?" Jonni sweetly answered, "Don't worry, honey, just listen and we'll explain when it's your turn."



Some of the ladies are risk-takers, choosing $500 questions right out of the gate, while others, less sure of themselves, choose the easier ones. Quite often the ladies forget this is a competition and they help each other with the answers. It is heartwarming to observe their gentle care and encouraging manner.

The last question in the category "Civil War" is: "From which state did both the president of the North and the president of the South come from?" Jonni doesn't know and neither does anyone else. And the only reason I know is because I have the answer sheet right in front of me. I offer to give them a clue and say "There's a song that has the answer but I'm not going to sing it for you because I don't actually know it. It begins with the words 'The sun shines bright on my old...' " Sybil immediately starts singing and we all join in as we discover we know the song after all. ♫


Yes, Sybil did win the game and she seemed pleased with herself...for a little while. Suddenly she was tired and wanted to go back to her room. Gently we pointed her in the right direction and watched to make sure she turned left after the dining room.

Wednesday, November 3, 2010

The Cat in the Attic by Daniel

Today's topic: The Cat in the Attic
By Daniel A. Nilson (alias Sanders)




Today Cat found a way into the attic. Well, this cat is no Pooh Bear because she is smart and found a way to get into the attic. Plus she can squeeze through tiny holes. Pooh can't because he is fluffed with fluffing.




So Cat could of went through one of these openings --->




So Cat went into the attic and came downstairs when I went in the attic looking for her. I came down to get a bottle of water then Cat jumped out and scared me.



and so that's a wrap.


by Daniel Nilson

The Scary Haircut

What was I thinking?

"Trust me," the man said. Then he began telling about how much he loved the outdoors. He loved to camp and hike and hunt and fish. He loved to be on the water in a kayak and he particularly enjoyed white water rafting. Great--I felt so reassured. It would be a different story if he were teaching me to shoot a gun or to fly fish but, no, he was wielding a very sharp pair of scissors uncomfortably close to my head and there seemed to be a lot of my hair landing on the floor. I was beginning to get alarmed.

"Close your eyes," he said, "I'm going to slice your bangs." Those were his exact words. I started wishing for a fire or a tornado--any excuse to get out of that chair and run away fast...

He must have noticed I was looking kind of panicked because he started telling me about his cute little fox terrier that he had originally wanted to name BooBoo. That was supposed to give me confidence? I was somewhat reassured when he told me that he named her Cocoa and not BooBoo. (ok, I was really not that comforted) To put me at ease, (I can only assume) he began to ask me about my family. He was duly impressed that all my children have the same father (not kidding). Soon, however, he seemed to have exhausted all possible topics of conversation (but not before he asked if I homeschool my kids through college--why, yes, I gave my son an engineering degree and I think I'll give my daughter a degree in chemistry).

Finally, he began to talk about my hair-which was the only reason I met him in the first place: "I was very conservative. I only cut off about 4 inches (?!!?) You will still be able to put it in a pony tail (yeah, if the pony tail is one inch long!) You'll probably want to use a diffuser when
you blow-dry it (my blow-drying is generally done by the wind.) Don't put a lot of gel or mousse in your hair because your hair is so fine (which sounds nice but isn't really a compliment.) When you walked in here I could tell your hair had a lot of potential. (translated--it looked kinda bad.) You can flip it up or curl it under, pretty much whatever you want to do with it." He seemed inordinately pleased with what he had done to my hair; personally, I am just glad I didn't end up as a trophy above his fireplace!

Postscript: I can't believe I forgot to mention the name of the salon he works out of: Headhunters... (I am not even kidding)

Sunday, October 31, 2010

Two River Float Trips











July 1978---July 2010

Platte River---Illinois River

not married to anybody---married to my best friend


walked to river from parking lot---bus ride to river from parking lot

Dan lost the car keys---Dan lost the air valve cover thingie


Karen found the car keys---Karen found the air valve cover thingie

tractor tire inner tube---rubber raft

got stuck on a sand bar---got caught in a log jam

supper around the campfire---supper at Pizza Hut

sang a camp song---sang a Christmas song

went home afterwards---went to watch bull riding afterwards

rode home in a Plymouth sedan---rode home in a Ford 350 pick-up truck

lots of friends and fun---lots of friends, family and fun

Monday, October 25, 2010

The Dictionary According to Daniel

The REAL reasons why it was Noah Webster who compiled the dictionary and not Daniel Webster or Daniel Nilson:

1-Daniel Webster (1782-1852) was too busy having a career as a politician (which included being a U.S. Senator and Secretary of State) when the dictionary was published in 1828.

2-Daniel Nilson was born 182 years too late and I just don't think he could have pulled it off...




Daniel's definitions:



bird-hollow boned creature

baby-small human that just got born

ice-a solid

sad-when you cry and your veins get purple

sugar-it makes your mouth hungry

autumn-hmm, I don't know

truth-the exact opposite of lying, something that really happened

face-something that has lips and eyes and nose and eyebrows

rest-sleep, where your stuffed animals are

bamboo-something that panda bears eat

bar-where people get beer and licorice

forest-place where bears and bunnies and tigers live and elephants, no, not elephants

old-you get wrinkled skin and white hair and you need glasses

defensing-what soldiers spend their time doing

cappucasino-where you go to drink coffee and lose money

stuffed animals-furry friends(don't ever call them stuffed animals because it hurts their feelings)

lamb-I don't know, I'm still thinking



(disclaimer-most of those definitions were from two years ago, just saying...)

Thursday, October 21, 2010

Apparently I Have Photogenic Kidneys

(this may be old news for some of you)




<--------- Kidney beans...

(it seemed funny at the time)
(3:41 a.m.)






The CT scan showed no stones or masses or anything that shouldn't be there, so for that we are gratefully giving God the praise!


I haven't seen the actual scan myself yet...I expect to when I see the specialist early next month. I am just weird that way. I suppose I ought to be nicer to myself and say "curious"...

In The Woods...Wondering






The sounds of rushing water, insects whirring, birds chirping, and even the rooster who missed sunrise and is diligently making up for it now...I am delighting in each note of the music of nature.

The occasional sounds of civilization intrude upon this idyllic time but soon fade away, leaving me wondering...not so much why, but what: what's up with those medical test results, anyway? what exactly does it all mean? what am I supposed to be learning from this? what's next?

Earlier life experiences have already given me the answer to the question "why?" and the answer is bigger than me, bigger than us, bigger than the whole universe and I am too finite to understand the answer. So I don't really ask "why" any more.

And as I sit here, soaking up the green and gold of leaves and sunshine, weary with all the wondering, I decide that I don't even need to know "what" any more. What I really need is peace and God has promised that I might have peace "in Him" and not only peace but "perfect peace" as I trust in Him.

Trust---it seems so passive. But it is a verb, an action word (as I tell my kids) and so I purpose to begin my "trust walk" in this area of my life--trusting God, I will journey on, doing the next thing and the next and the next. I can hear the children back at the campsite and I decide that the "next thing" for me right now is to take them down to the stream so we can test out our homemade crawdad trap!


~These things I have spoken unto you, that in Me ye might have peace. John 16:33

~Thou wilt keep him in perfect peace, whose mind is stayed on Thee: because he trusteth in Thee. Isaiah 16:3

Wednesday, October 20, 2010

Today I'm The One...September 29, 2010

...a busy weekday morning...getting laundry started...kids busy with their schoolwork...and the phone rings..."you need to go in for a CT scan of your kidneys"...the doctor can't/won't tell me much more...but she doesn't know I am Stephen's mom--Sarah's mom--Rachel's mom--Grace's mom--Michael's mom--Hannah's mom--Daniel's mom...and I'm the one who isn't supposed to get sick. So today I'm the one asking for prayer. I know there are those with far greater needs but the good thing about God is that He is not overwhelmed by our many petitions, whether weighty or trivial.




(note: this was originally a Facebook note from before I started this blog but I felt like I needed to include it here for the sake of clarity) (plus I'm into recycling...)

Tuesday, October 19, 2010

Music on the Mountain


Flashlights and lanterns in hand, we hike to the summit of Bigfoot Hill. Actually, I have no idea what the name of this little hill really is, that's just what I have called it for years---ever since we hiked up there one evening at twilight, hoping to see Bigfoot. He never appeared but the name stuck.

Tonight we are going to look at the stars and sing. There are practically a dozen of us trying to fit on the blanket; after a little rearranging and scooting, we are finally comfortable and all on there...mostly. Mr. P. begins to play his guitar. To my secret delight, one of the first songs he sings is "Grandma's Feather Bed." (how did he know?) Soon we begin singing praise songs, choruses and hymns. Often, Mr. B. starts singing and Mr. P. plays it by ear. Then, if we know it, we join in.

Sometimes a song is interrupted by cries of "Did you see that?" One meteor would have been enough excitement for me; all total, I think we saw 6 meteors, most of which were just quick little blips in the sky. Not everybody spotted a meteor each time; in fact, I only saw one, which I attribute to the fact that I was so caught up in the music...evidently, I can only use one sense at a time. (I am sure it had nothing to do with the fact that I was wearing my reading glasses.)

Singing in the dark, nobody notices or cares if someone hits a wrong note or forgets the words. My youngest son burrows down in his sleeping bag and pretends to snore. I snuggle up to him and keep singing. Sometimes we sing without the guitar--it's a good thing we have Mr. B. to lead us and keep us in tune!

During a break in the singing, we marvel at the stars and point out constellations, planets and the Milky Way. Seldom have we seen so many stars!

Someone suggests a song and we begin again. It's a song I don't know and so I just listen, soaking in the warm fellowship, yet shivering a bit in the breeze. I am tempted to confiscate some body's sleeping bag but become distracted by the next song and Mrs. P's sweet voice harmonizing with her husband.

So many songs, so many sweet moments yet all too soon it is time to take the trek down the little mountain and back to the warmth of the fire. And guess who really did fall asleep in his sleeping bag?

Saturday, October 16, 2010

My Thoughtful Spot

Sometimes under a tree in the woods, sometimes by the lake on a blanket, sometimes in the backyard on the swing, and sometimes at my own kitchen table--my thoughtful spot is anywhere I can grab a few minutes alone to reflect.

There are so many words inside me, just waiting to burst out! They crowd around and jostle each other in my brain until I get a chance to put pencil to paper so they can find their way out. Like little soldiers, sometimes they march out in an orderly fashion. Other times, they tumble out so quickly and so recklessly that it takes me some time to get them all lined up.

Once my thoughts have made the journey from my mind to my notebook, I visit them often, tweaking and rearranging until I can almost hear them protest.

But finally, I decide to embrace my new motto: "Done is better than perfect...plus it frees you up to do other stuff."

With a tiny bit of trepidation, I click on publish post and my blog is officially up!